#77 | WHAT JOB SEEKERS CAN LEARN FROM DATING APPS
WHAT JOB SEEKERS CAN LEARN FROM DATING APPS | E.77 Career Therapy Podcast, with Ann Marie Carrothers
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On this week's Career Therapy Podcast (e.77), we welcome Ann Marie Carrothers to the conversation.
Ann Marie is a content strategist, digital educator, and founder of Public Privates, a project dedicated to helping people find love online safely by providing guidance on algorithms, AI facial recognition, and digital privacy + security.
In today’s episode we talk about the overlap between online dating and the job search, the difference between authenticity and marketing yourself to attract a job (or potential date), and how ideas of dream jobs and soul mates can actually hurt our chances of building a life we love.
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Now grab a cup of coffee or tea and settle in for my conversation with Ann Marie…
During this Episode, We Discuss:
0:00 introducing Ann Marie Carrothers
8:22 how the job search and dating are similar
10:20 where do people struggle with getting specific?
14:00 marketing yourself vs. being authentic
15:30 what should we keep private? (+ neurodivergence)
18:45 “People aren’t doing well right now mental health-wise”
21:14 Why it’s bad to be hyper self-focused
25:15 Everything comes with trade-offs (“settling”) (star) + scripts
32:14The tightrope between humbling ourselves and hyping ourselves up
34:40 How can people get back on the horse and keep crushing it?
41:06 Coffee chats and the BEST WAY to network (if you’re applying to your dream job before you’re ready…)
49:58 Ann Marie Carrothers’ advice to job seekers and anyone dating
Resources, links, and/or books mentioned in this episode:
As always, thanks for listening!